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Donor Identity Priming: The Adjective That Raises Average Gifts

Speak to who the donor is, not what the organization needs.

By Donor Insights · Published September 10, 2026 · 8 min read

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Key takeaways

  • Appeals that described donors with identity adjectives such as kind, generous, and compassionate lifted women's average gifts by about 10% in Jen Shang's public radio experiments.
  • Labels work best when they point at concrete prior behavior and stress what makes this donor's support distinct, per Adrian Sargeant's review of the labeling research.
  • The Institute for Sustainable Philanthropy reports uplifts above 100% from full identity-and-wellbeing rewrites, a figure from its own client experiments.
  • Identity language matters most where retention is weakest. Sector retention sat at 43.3% in 2025 and first-time donor retention at 18.9% (Fundraising Effectiveness Project).
  • Start with the thank-you. Name the person's generosity rather than the transaction, keep the label true, and repeat it at every touch so it consolidates.

Donor identity priming means describing the donor with true identity words, such as kind, generous, and compassionate, instead of describing the organization's need. In Jen Shang's public radio experiments, appeals built on identity adjectives lifted women's average gifts by about 10%, according to the Stanford Social Innovation Review. The change costs nothing but the sentence.

What is donor identity priming?

It is the practice of writing asks and thank-yous around who the donor is rather than what the organization needs. The research behind it comes from Jen Shang, the first person to earn a PhD in philanthropy and co-director of the Institute for Sustainable Philanthropy with Adrian Sargeant. Her premise is simple to state and rare in practice: a donor reading your letter is not evaluating your budget, they are deciding what kind of person they are.

The mechanism is self-perception. People learn who they are partly by watching what they do. A gift is evidence, and a label names the evidence. When a thank-you says the gift was a kind thing done by a kind person, the donor files the gift under identity rather than under transactions, and identity is what renews.

What did the identity experiments find?

In field experiments run with US public radio stations in the 2000s, callers making a pledge heard language that described donors with adjectives drawn from moral traits: kind, compassionate, helpful, caring, friendly, generous, honest, and hard-working. Among women, average gifts rose by about 10% against callers who heard the standard script. The lift concentrated among women donors, whose self-reported moral identity aligned most closely with the adjectives used, which is a reason to test the wording on your own file rather than assume a uniform effect.

10%
lift in women's average gifts when the public radio ask described donors with identity adjectivesStanford Social Innovation Review, on Jen Shang's research

Adrian Sargeant's review of the labeling literature, drawing on studies by Swinyard and Ray, Kraut, and Tybout and Yalch, adds the conditions that make a label hold. It should point at concrete prior behavior rather than a vague compliment. It should stress what makes this donor's support distinct. And it should be repeated, because repeated labeling is what turns a description into a self-image that carries an intrinsic motive to keep giving.

Why does a label change giving behavior?

Because the donor wants their next action to be consistent with who they believe they are. A label that names a true trait gives the donor a reason to renew that has nothing to do with your calendar or your campaign deadline. That is retention language in the strict sense: the donor keeps giving to stay the person the label described.

The Institute for Sustainable Philanthropy has taken this further than single adjectives. Its method rewrites whole communications around donor identity, emotion, and psychological wellbeing, and the institute reports uplifts in excess of 100% in real-world giving across four years of client experiments, per its published overview. Those figures are the institute's own reported results, not independently audited effect sizes, so read them as a direction rather than a promise.

How do you rewrite a thank-you around donor identity?

Find the sentence that describes the donor's action, usually the first one, and move the person into it. The examples below are illustrative lines for a fictional organization, not templates to paste.

Organization-centered lines rewritten around donor identity (illustrative examples)
Organization-centered lineDonor-identity line
Thank you for your donation of $50.Your kindness put warm meals in front of twenty families this week.
We need your help to meet our year-end goal.You have been a generous friend to this work for three years. Here is what that generosity made possible.
Please consider donating to support our programs.People as caring as you are the reason the shelter door stays open.
  • Label only what is true and concrete. A third year of support is a fact, and facts label better than flattery.
  • Stress what is distinct about this donor's giving, such as their consistency, their early response, or their monthly commitment.
  • Use one adjective, placed where the donor's action is described, rather than stacking praise until it reads as a form letter.
  • Repeat the same label across the receipt, the welcome series, and the next ask, because repetition is what consolidates it.

Where does identity language belong across the donor year?

Anywhere the donor's behavior gets described. The thank-you comes first, and its speed is its own discipline. After that, the receipt line, the welcome series, the second-gift invitation, and the renewal appeal each carry a sentence about the donor, and each of those sentences can name the person instead of the payment. This article is about the wording. The timing and sequencing live in the linked guides.

18.9%
of first-time donors were retained in 2025, the segment where the first thank-you's language has the most work to doFundraising Effectiveness Project

The current numbers say the stakes plainly. Sector retention sat at 43.3% in 2025 while the donor base shrank 3.6% for a fifth straight year (Fundraising Effectiveness Project). Most retention tools cost money. Identity language is one of the few that costs only attention, which is why it belongs in the first-time donor's earliest touches, where retention is weakest.

What results should you expect?

Calibrate to the published evidence. A changed sentence moved average gifts by about 10% in the experiments, and full rewrites claim far more with the self-reported caveat above. Treat single-digit to low-double-digit movement in average gift as the honest expectation for a wording change, then let your own file settle it. Donor Insights reads your contacts and gifts so you can watch average gift and second-gift rate by cohort while a rewrite runs. The methodology starts from your own giving records, and the platform tracks each cohort against its own history.

Frequently asked questions

What is donor identity priming?
Writing asks and thank-yous around who the donor is rather than what the organization needs, using true identity words such as kind, generous, and compassionate. In Jen Shang's public radio experiments this lifted women's average gifts by about 10%.
Does identity labeling work on every donor?
The published lift concentrated among women donors, whose moral identity aligned most with the adjectives tested. The honest approach is to treat the effect as directional and test the wording on your own file by cohort.
Which adjectives should we use?
The experiments drew on kind, compassionate, helpful, caring, friendly, generous, honest, and hard-working. Pick the one that truthfully describes the donor's actual behavior, use it once per message, and keep it consistent across touches.
Is identity labeling manipulative?
Not when the label is true. The research conditions require concrete prior behavior, so the label is an accurate description of something the donor actually did. Inventing traits a donor has not shown is flattery, and it reads that way.
Where should we start?
The next thank-you letter. Replace the sentence that thanks the payment with one that names the person's generosity, keep it concrete, and repeat the same label in the receipt, welcome series, and next ask.

Sources

  1. Stanford Social Innovation Review, on Jen Shang's donor identity research
  2. Institute for Sustainable Philanthropy, philanthropic psychology overview (self-reported results)
  3. Fundraising Effectiveness Project, Q4 2025 report (2025 data)
  4. Adrian Sargeant (retention and labeling research overview)

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